I have no high school diploma or high school degree.
Skills/experience:
Intermediate/advanced general computer skills
Music – 9 years!
Courier/driving
Forklift experience
Some auto repair
Leadership
Stage presence/theater
Music teaching
Physically strong/agile
Cash register
People/telephone skills
I hate sales jobs.
Maybe I should to something totally different and out of the blue. Violin teaching/performing isn’t paying the bills let alone the self employment tax.
I have a wife and kid.
I have been thinking customer service for a cell phone company would be just the thing. (?) Good advice from all, though.
Sounds like you found yourself in the taking care of yourself trap. You took something that you (I assume) love, violin, and made a job out of it. The problem with these sort of hobbie/jobs is the kind of value they demand from the rest of the business world. How many violinist are there in the world? How many companies are 100% dependant on violinist talent to make profits?
Being responsible for a family changes all the rules. I would love to be a rockstar, but instead, I’m a manager for a class one railroad. Find a trade, skill or talent that is worth paying for. Make goals. Find help. Strangers can make a good support group for annonomous questions you may be too embarrassed to ask family and friends.
I’m sure you qualify for education assistance programs. I had the military pay for my education. This may be an option for you? Most federal funded carrier retraining programs are managed by your state department. Research the web for details.
The first step to living a more successful lifestyle is to WANT a more successful lifestyle. Now you need to make a plan and set goals on how you are going to get there. Ask lots of questions and do lots of research. Have a goal on what you want to be doing and where it may lead you in 10-15 years. Ask other successful people how they got there. Have a back up plan.
Don’t give up. You know you can teach violin, let’s see what else you can do.